Joe Kort

Joe Kort (born 1963) is an openly gay American clinical social worker, clinical sexologist, author, lecturer, and facilitator of workshops. He established his private practice in 1985, specializing in gay affirmative psychotherapy, mixed-orientation marriages, sexual addiction, sexual abuse, and Imago Relationship Therapy. Kort is the author of four books and numerous journal and magazine articles.

Education

Kort received a BA in Social Work from Michigan State University (1985) and a Master of Social Work Degree (1986) and Master’s in Educational Psychology (1992) from Wayne State University in Detroit, MI. Kort has also completed his doctorate from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists in Orlando, FL (http://esextherapy.com/) and holds a Ph.D. in clinical sexology

In June 1991, he received his ACSW (Academy of Certified Social Workers) from the National Association of Social Workers. In 1995, he was certified to practice Imago Relationship Therapy, as developed by Harville Hendrix. In 1998, Kort was nationally certified to present couples’ weekends based on Imago therapy (IMAGO Relationship Therapy).

Career

Since 1985, Kort has provided psychotherapy and relationship counseling to individuals and couples, both gay and heterosexual, and specializes in sexual addiction/compulsivity, depression, anxiety disorders, sexual orientation issues, mixed-orientation marriages/relationships as well as adult survivors of sexual abuse/incest.

Since 1999, he has been a member of The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (formerly The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity), as well as American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). He is a Certified Sex Therapist (CST) and a Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor (CSTS).

Kort's website, StraightGuise.com, is addressed to straight men who have sex with men (MSM) and women who are involved with them.

Since 2009 Kort has been the Founding Director at The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, MI. The staff's areas of expertise include individual and couple counseling; intimacy, communication & sexual relationships; sexual relationship issues; loss of sexual desire, painful intercourse; sexual & arousal difficulties; out-of-control sexual behaviors; LGBT issues; difficulties following childhood abuse; anxiety and depression; and more.

Kort is a part of the teaching faculty at University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program on LGBT issues. (https://ssw.umich.edu/faculty/profiles/ce/42530-joseph-h-kort)

Media

Kort has appeared on television and radio programs, was a featured guest on The Montel Williams Show and The Tyra Banks Show talk shows on the topic of mixed-orientation marriages. Kort was also a guest on Oprah and Friends Radio "Better in Bed" with Dr. Laura Berman, discussing straight men who have sex with men.

Activism

Kort has devoted his career to advancing the social acceptance, and professional treatment of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities. His first book, 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives (2003, Alyson Books) gave answers to the most common questions his clients brought to him. Kort came out with a second edition in 2016. This book has been updated and revised and includes a new chapter on sexual health of gay men which replaces the chapter on sexual addiction. The old Chapter 5, “Avoid or Overcome Sexual Addiction,” has been replaced by “Explore Erotic Turn-ons and Sexual Interests.” It also reflects the contemporary culture for gay men in social media, marriage equality and updated information on HIV.

Kort is an outspoken advocate for men who have sex with men (MSM), particularly heterosexual men who engage in sexual behavior with other men and are not gay or bisexual. The term down low specifically addresses African-American males secretly engaging in sexual behavior with other men. Kort has expanded the awareness of down-low behavior to apply beyond men of color and writes about this sexual behavior crossing all ethnicities, races, religions and socioeconomics.

Personal life

Kort met his partner, Mike, in 1993, and they religiously married under Reform Judaism in 2000 and legally married in 2005 in Massachusetts. The New York Times quoted him as saying, "For many young gay men today, settling down in a relationship in their 20sâ€"or getting married if they live in Massachusettsâ€"will feel like a very natural thing to do."

Publications

• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives (ISBN 1-55583782-4)
• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives; Second edition
• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love (ISBN 1-55583898-7)
• Gay Affirmative Psychotherapy for the Straight Clinician (ISBN 0393704971)
• Is My Husband Straight, Gay, or Bi? (ISBN 1442223251: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, 2014.)
• "Sexual aftereffects in male survivors of childhood sexual abuse: orientation confusion, compulsions, kinky sexual interests, and dysfunctions" a chapter in Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men: The Trauma of Sexual Abuse (ISBN 1138942227)
• LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies(ISBN 1324000481: W. W. Norton & Company; 1 edition (February 20, 2018))

References

External links

• Official website
• http://www.GayAffirmativeTherapy.com
• http://www.StraightGuise.com
• http://www.CRSH.com
• http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-kort-phd/
• https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code
• https://www.youtube.com/Joekort

• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives 2003
• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives 2016
• 10 Consejos Basicos Para El Hombre Gay/ 10 Basic Advices for the Gay Man (Spanish Edition)
• Schwul & Cool (German)
• Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician: The Essential Guide
• LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies
• 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love
• Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?: A Guide for Women Concerned about Their Men
• Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men: The Trauma of Sexual Abuse (Psychoanalysis in a New Key Book Series)